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When it comes to Valentine’s Day, half the fun is in the planning. It’s the perfect excuse (as if you need one) to celebrate love in all its forms—whether you’re spoiling a long-time partner, wooing a new flame, or simply showing yourself some much-deserved TLC.
But let’s face it, the clichéd box of chocolates and last-minute bouquet isn’t going to cut it anymore. If you’re determined to make this Valentine’s Day unforgettable, it’s time to think outside the box. Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered—with fun activities, extravagant surprises, and a dash of wardrobe inspiration to make you look the part.

Play It Cool With A Casual Date
Not every Valentine’s Day has to be rich with grand gestures (because, really, who wants to queue up for an overpriced steak dinner?). Sometimes, a laid-back vibe speaks volumes.
Start with a picnic in the park. Pack up your partner’s favourite nibbles, a cosy blanket, and a chilled bottle of rosé. Find a quiet spot with a gorgeous view and enjoy the simplicity of spending time together. Need a backup plan in case the weather takes a nosedive? Recreate the idea at home with fairy lights, a playlist of romantic tunes, and enough finger food to feed a small army.
Or why not tap into your inner kid and hit up the arcade? A little healthy competition never hurt anyone. Get silly with a Mario Kart battle or challenge each other to see who’s actually good at air hockey. The winner gets a kiss—or maybe the first round of drinks. Either way, it’s a win-win.
Turn Up the Glam for Extravagant Romance
Is big, bold romance more your thing? Valentine’s Day is the prime excuse for pulling out all the stops—even the ultra-luxurious ones.
Start by surprising your partner with a staycation at a boutique hotel. Think plush robes, room service, and a massage for two. Better yet, pair it with reservations at the hottest fine-dining spot in town—but make sure to book early, darlings (waiting lists are no joke this time of year). Bonus points if you pre-order a bottle of champagne for the table.
Not into hotels? Charter a boat and enjoy a private sunset cruise—it doesn’t get much more romantic than champagne and canapés while the sun dips below the horizon. Or opt for a statement-making helicopter tour over your city. The effort is big, but the impact? Even bigger.
Valentine’s Weekend Getaway? Yes, Please.
If you’re lucky enough to have a whole weekend to play with, use it as the perfect excuse for a romantic escape. Think countryside cottages where you can cosy up by the fire, or beachfront bungalows with ocean views and cocktails in hand. Looking for adventure? Glamping in a luxe safari tent ticks all the boxes—it’s both outdoorsy and indulgent (and the Instagram shots will be killer).
Valentine’s Day Wardrobe Goals
You can’t plan the perfect Valentine’s Day without looking like an absolute dream. Whether you’re heading out for a special dinner or keeping it low-key, remember that your outfit sets the tone.
For Date Night Glam: Sweep them off their feet in an LBD with a twist on your usual date night outfits – a cut-out here, a touch of shimmer there. Pair it with sky-high heels and a red lip that says, “I’m here to slay.”
For Effortless Chic: A silk slip dress in soft pastels or champagne tones is as romantic as it gets. Keep it casual with ankle boots and a cropped biker jacket, or go full va-va-voom with strappy sandals and chandelier earrings.
For A Laid-Back Lovefest: Stay cosy but gorgeous with tailored trousers, an oversized knit in a rich hue, and loafers. Add a chic trench coat à la Parisienne charm, and you’ve nailed the ‘I just threw this together’ look.
Looking to add a fun twist to your valentines outfits? Accessories are your secret weapon. Think heart-shaped earrings, rose-gold bangles, or a clutch in the shape of (you guessed it) a heart.
Give Them Butterflies With A Surprise
Want to really wow them this year? Plan a surprise that shows them just how much thought you’ve put in.
- A Memory Book. Go old school by creating a scrapbook of your favourite moments together—print your best photos, write a few sweet notes, and hey presto, instant tears (happy ones, of course).
- Personalised Gifts. When in doubt, go for custom. Engrave their initials on a leather wallet, order a bespoke piece of jewellery, or get their favourite quote stitched onto a blanket. Bonus points if it’s pink or red.
- A Post-Valentine’s Surprise. Thought it had ended? Think again. Book them a surprise cooking class or wine-tasting experience for next weekend. The suspense alone will make them swoon.
Make This Valentine’s Day One To Remember
Whether you’re keeping it casual or going all out, the best Valentine’s Day plans come from the heart. Sure, the activities and outfits help (because who doesn’t love looking cute and having a blast?), but at the end of the day, it’s the thought and effort behind it all that your partner will remember most.
Now go ahead and start planning—it’s time to steal their heart all over again.